School Begins & Bus Driver Roulette

First day of school begins today.

Most parents feel a sense of relief when their children return to the classroom.  As a special needs mom, I have a dread for Riley, my non-verbal, non-ambulatory child being sent out without me to protect him.

I am grateful as well.  The constant watchfulness of the Summer, the long hours feeding, holding him, providing therapy and being trapped indoors because our Florida heat is too much for my child are finally over.  My guard can finally come down for a moment.  I can linger a few moments over my coffee and return to the gym.  Perhaps find a little sanity.

New 1st and 4th graders.

 

Curiously, my de-stress became John’s stress.  He took this picture because it amused him and had every intention of carrying the load into class for Ronan.  The chaos of the morning left staff demanding parents clear away cars as quickly as possible which left Ronan alone in the gymnasium with his pile of goods.  Now, he cannot forgive himself for not seeing the entire production through, especially given the panic on his child’s face as he left.

John’s wannabe Facebook post:

John wouldn’t post this (even though I said he could) out of fear of my not sleeping with him again (married 15 yrs and disabled kid: like that would happen!)… his draft post:  First day of school and apparently after years of rift the Lee County bus sys.  learns…. (John: how was the bus today?) (Me: good, in fact the bus driver wouldn’t even make eye contact and barely talked to me) (John: So your reputation precedes you and they finally learned).

We are all special… by Stacie Wiesenbaugh

4 Responses to School Begins & Bus Driver Roulette

  1. […] bus issues have been ongoing (Bus Driver Roulette, Let’s Play Bus Driver Roulette Again and School Begins Bus Driver Roulette). Is it possible to limit school bus ride time via the IEP.  I highly doubt it but I can ask.  To […]

  2. Lyuba @ Will Cook For Smiles says:

    >You do deserve some time for yourself, even if just a couple of hours.
    I understand the FL heat. I call it our summer hibernation, as I too live in FL.
    Great blog!

  3. TherExtras says:

    >I'm sympathetic to both John and Ronan. What a ridiculous way to bring children into school on the first day! You would think someone could have organized that better. (ie the principal)

    Hoping to read that both John and Ronan ended the day better.

    Barbara

  4. pglm says:

    >enjoy your coffee and work out…you deserve it. Sending prayers out into the universe for your boys this morning…..praying it will be a good day for all

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